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Diversity in Diction - Equality in Action

A Guide to the Appropriate Use of Language

5. Sexual Orientation and Language

Lesbian, gay and bisexual (LGB) people are excluded by language and behaviour which assumes everyone is heterosexual. We all need to be aware that what we say or write may be heard or read by some one of same-sex orientation. We therefore need to use language which is inclusive and will not cause offence.

There are many words and phrases that are used to refer to sexuality in derogatory ways. To avoid any misunderstanding people should stick to using the words lesbian, gay or bisexual, even though they may hear LGB people choosing to speak about themselves differently. Care is needed however. Some women, for instance, may refer to themselves as gay women rather than as lesbians. If you are dealing with an individual, and you need to refer to their sexual orientation, but are unsure, the best guide is to ask politely what word the person prefers and make certain that they are comfortable having this referred to before going any further.

Including Women

On the whole, the word gay can be taken as referring to both men and women, as in the Gay Olympics. However, it is more commonly used to describe men than women. We have already said that inappropriate use of language can make women less visible than men. Referring only to 'gay people' or the 'gay community' may have that effect.

When referring to lesbians, bisexual people and gay men, do not use phrases which imply that our sexual orientation is a choice. Avoid stereotyping and the use of words that have negative connotations.

Bisexuality

Bisexuality is unlikely to raise any particular considerations for employment or service delivery other than those which affect gay men or lesbians. However, it is important to be aware that people who are bisexual may not wish to be presumed heterosexual, any more than do lesbians or gay men.

Homosexual

People of different generations may use different language to define their sexual orientation. For example, some older people may define themselves as homosexual rather than gay or lesbian. However the word homosexual is rarely used by younger LGB people to describe themselves, and is often seen as derogatory.

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